tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-48479134487241434432024-03-13T02:03:22.364+00:00MILD & MELLOW MELANCHOLY MUSINGS...Does What It Says On The Tin!Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger160125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4847913448724143443.post-41742336631365433822023-12-17T23:59:00.005+00:002023-12-18T18:32:05.712+00:00SANTA CLAUS IS BACK IN TOWN...<p style="text-align: left;"></p><div><p style="text-align: justify;"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiBSNEKBnQzHnPCb6D6kylNgyMoNJ_l9IU5hoX6-ymooM_kCjqtVNzRAQnZPqugQzf-Cpwl-PLdjR7YbSS4jUu_Hy0gelTdNiO-VzTZ3Agnj4tywqhO0i9BaCoolOgIsFq4XdXBatYbELSMpjInn-vn4T8EbUTomf7ZKokVsFV6UvqksTIYtBDaaiLfHFo/s1200/Santa%20(2).JPG" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1200" data-original-width="989" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiBSNEKBnQzHnPCb6D6kylNgyMoNJ_l9IU5hoX6-ymooM_kCjqtVNzRAQnZPqugQzf-Cpwl-PLdjR7YbSS4jUu_Hy0gelTdNiO-VzTZ3Agnj4tywqhO0i9BaCoolOgIsFq4XdXBatYbELSMpjInn-vn4T8EbUTomf7ZKokVsFV6UvqksTIYtBDaaiLfHFo/s320/Santa%20(2).JPG" width="264" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Hail, the returning hero</span></td></tr></tbody></table><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"> <span style="color: red; font-size: large;"><b>A</b></span><span style="color: #2b00fe;">nd now a timely tale to tell</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><span style="color: #2b00fe;"> from childhood days of long ago,</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><span style="color: #2b00fe;"> with echoes deep, peal mem'ry's bell</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><span style="color: #2b00fe;"> to fill hearts with a joyous glow.</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ffa400; font-size: x-large;">******</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><i><b><span style="font-size: large;">R</span>aymond Bennie</b></i> was his name - and still <i><b>is</b></i>, I presume. He was one of my classmates in primary school, whose family emigrated to Australia around 1968 or '69. Ironic then that our school's name was <i><b>Canberra</b></i>, and it struck me years later when I saw him in an old class photo that he 'looked' Australian. That's to say, he looked just like what I assumed a typical Australian boy would look like as I've always felt that many Australians have a distinct physiognomy. I wonder if either his father or mother might've been an Ozzie who decided to return to the place of his or her birth, hence Raymond's immigration way back then. Not that any of that's important, but you're not being charged for any extraneous detail so no need to panic.<p></p><p style="text-align: justify;">However, just before I get to the point, I also sometimes wonder whether Raymond ever returned to Scotland for a visit over the years, as surely he and his parents would've had friends and (assuming they were of UK origin) relatives with whom they'd want to keep in touch? All I know is that last time I saw him was around 55 years ago when we were still primary school pupils, and 55 years is a long, long time. To think that he may have returned on occasion yet I never ran into him is a bit sad, as he was part of my youth - and you all know how important my youth is to me. As yours is to you also, I'm sure.</p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjLIPExWTk_IumKqF_6q0aQaltfiUli-W8tJLW8lyUoyYG_1mMBxbytD-2h62N5KcVOdbnZk8_yuAkdJth9Iul37zfAL4vWPHpSBRmo7BH7owpEgI3dkxxyJWxugIlqBYHfWY0rlz7djJjgRm7RIrxOpqXX7arZY_jSCQHg31HLW-ZKO-z879K_i8peb-A/s500/Raymond%20Bennie.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="500" data-original-width="358" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjLIPExWTk_IumKqF_6q0aQaltfiUli-W8tJLW8lyUoyYG_1mMBxbytD-2h62N5KcVOdbnZk8_yuAkdJth9Iul37zfAL4vWPHpSBRmo7BH7owpEgI3dkxxyJWxugIlqBYHfWY0rlz7djJjgRm7RIrxOpqXX7arZY_jSCQHg31HLW-ZKO-z879K_i8peb-A/s320/Raymond%20Bennie.jpg" width="229" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Raymond in September 1967</span></td></tr></tbody></table><p style="text-align: justify;">So what's the deal with Raymond to warrant a mention here? Simple. We weren't particular pals who hung about together, but one day he invited me back to his house after school. I've no idea why; perhaps he was just at a loose end and wanting someone to talk to, or maybe he was simply trying to expand his circle of friends, but I accepted his invitation and accompanied him home at four o'clock. All I remember of that visit is me expressing a liking for a small stuffed cloth <i><b>Santa Claus</b></i> lying on his room floor. <i>"Take it"</i> he said, generously, so I did, and Santa returned home with me for the rest of his existence. I assumed him to be a cat's play-toy, a notion reinforced a few short years later when I saw his double in a garden across the back lane from a friend of my mother's we were visiting that day. I was sorely tempted to nick him, but resisted.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">Poor Santa took a bit of a drubbing over the coming weeks and months (maybe even a year or two), due to the fact that my brother and me played 'dodgeball' with him. My sibling's bed ran along one side of our shared room and my bed ran along the opposite side, so we'd hurl Santa at one another while we each tried to evade being hit by him - not that it was painful when Santa found his target as as had no weight to him. Eventually, Santa was in a sorry state due to the rough-handling he'd received and started to come apart, so I carefully undid the stitching holding him together and separated the cloth segments into their individual pieces, intending to sew him back up more securely to better withstand his 'dodgeball' adventures.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">Alas, it just wasn't to be as, due mainly to the dawning enormity of my ambitions, I repeatedly procrastinated from remedial administrations until, eventually, at least one of the six cloth pieces was mislaid and never seen again. I kept what remained for a few years, but eventually disposed of them after flitting to a new house and deciding to rid myself of childish things in an attempt to be more 'mature'. (That never quite happened, eh?)</p><p style="text-align: justify;"></p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjVhZYR0yPeJSaP03xXfMk0SrpUCYMQUvbjKHyV6MNqBBh_th1f3_rciuMxAddjvOBBMi5cmP_Iq54b1fURC9hVvSlCa8r_w0Q0a9PVBmQ-cM_KCaWPLLhDRD59Wl5-H67Okj70_S2EAJ-rzvBom1OjedwMAJ2GpAIS8GFtsXXEgcWA44GmddV0IQ3X2LE/s1200/Cloth%20Santa%20(1).jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1200" data-original-width="979" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjVhZYR0yPeJSaP03xXfMk0SrpUCYMQUvbjKHyV6MNqBBh_th1f3_rciuMxAddjvOBBMi5cmP_Iq54b1fURC9hVvSlCa8r_w0Q0a9PVBmQ-cM_KCaWPLLhDRD59Wl5-H67Okj70_S2EAJ-rzvBom1OjedwMAJ2GpAIS8GFtsXXEgcWA44GmddV0IQ3X2LE/s320/Cloth%20Santa%20(1).jpg" width="261" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Seller's photo of cloth Santa</span></td></tr></tbody></table><p></p><p style="text-align: justify;">Still, I never quite forgot Santa, and while keeping an eye out for a doppelganger replacement over the years (and decades), I bought other Santas to act as 'stand-ins' until such time as I could locate one. Not that any of the others were ever used for dodgeball, but I liked to dig them out at Christmas to brighten up the living-room in a festive fashion. Recently, however, I saw what looked to be the same Santa I had as a kid on <i><b>eBay</b></i>, though with one significant difference. My Santa had been manufactured 'ready-to-go' as a complete item, whereas the eBay one had clearly been a 'do-it-yourself' kit version that hadn't been sewn together too well. As you can see from the seller's photo, the edges were all frayed, and it needed a bit of a clean.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">No problem for the big man. (Yes, that's <i><b>me</b></i> - why are you laughing?) I carefully removed the stitching, applied a thin coating of PVC glue to the frayed ends, and then stitched Santa back together again, all the while being fully aware that I was finally completing the task I'd set for myself over 50 years earlier, but had left undone. It felt almost like I'd simply dug out the pieces of my original Santa given to me by Raymond and picked up where I'd left off all those years before, making my feelings of accomplishment even greater than I'm probably entitled to.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">He still needs a bit of a clean, but it's good to see yet another once-familiar face from my childhood back in the fold, along with all the other replacement items I've managed to secure over the years. Honest, hard as it may be for you to believe (or appreciate), it's almost feels like they've never been away. And, take it from me, that's a <i><b>good</b></i> feeling. So here's to Raymond for being the source of happy memories of days gone by. Hope he's doing okay for himself over in the land of Oz, though I'd be surprised if he even remembers me - or Santa.</p><p style="text-align: justify;"></p><p style="text-align: justify;"></p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgNztmC0W7YE14xg6Qt0w4FW-ObUL2NIrQ0VSA3WNeR9V3ZcmngXAXYLy9D9N4kfuLSDo44M1jN_hYs7BQSFYjr1nqK4mE4qQaysHyBQukrJgiHHIdODZOQkrraD-900wayxilwoGYkWuDCpM6VL3S3g4t_HXYWFnZKFfpCDYy1B5MFLGXbg-Gqo4qgGzQ/s1200/Santa%20(1).JPG" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1200" data-original-width="991" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgNztmC0W7YE14xg6Qt0w4FW-ObUL2NIrQ0VSA3WNeR9V3ZcmngXAXYLy9D9N4kfuLSDo44M1jN_hYs7BQSFYjr1nqK4mE4qQaysHyBQukrJgiHHIdODZOQkrraD-900wayxilwoGYkWuDCpM6VL3S3g4t_HXYWFnZKFfpCDYy1B5MFLGXbg-Gqo4qgGzQ/s320/Santa%20(1).JPG" width="264" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Another snap of Santa after a little work by yours truly</span></td></tr></tbody></table><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">Okay, this post has been a little off the wall, but feel free to comment if you so desire, even if it's only to tell me I'm bonkers. And if any of you have ever managed to replace a cherished item you once had after so long a time, tell us all about that as well.</div></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4847913448724143443.post-51003254639487920392023-11-28T02:11:00.004+00:002023-11-28T02:16:54.743+00:0051 YEARS AND COUNTING (DOWN?)...<div style="text-align: center;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-BUt_xvSkqWQ/WTkiNdw2VLI/AAAAAAAA_bc/NX5i-H4q61gJ5wQGcx8Wue3XIgSuGjLZQCLcB/s1600/Back%2Bview%2Bfrom%2Blane.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1001" data-original-width="1501" height="266" src="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-BUt_xvSkqWQ/WTkiNdw2VLI/AAAAAAAA_bc/NX5i-H4q61gJ5wQGcx8Wue3XIgSuGjLZQCLcB/s400/Back%2Bview%2Bfrom%2Blane.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><b><span style="color: red; font-size: large;">T</span></b>here was a moment back in the 1970s when I believed it would last forever - and<i><b> me </b></i>along with it. However, that moment eventually passed, and any illusions I had of immortality faded like the dying rays of the sun - as perish most of our hopes and dreams before life's fleeting journey has run its course. I'm reminded of this every time I see yet another part of my past vanish from my life, suddenly and without warning.</div></div><div style="text-align: center;"><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div></div><div style="text-align: center;"><div style="text-align: justify;">A few months back (June 14th to be precise) it was 51 years since I first moved into the house in which I currently reside. However, I've lived here for only 47 years, because 11 years after moving in, we flitted to another home in a different neighbourhood. Just over 4 years later we returned - and I've been back here for precisely 36 years since last August 1st. (The official tenancy commencement date is Tuesday 4th, but we moved in 3 days early on the Saturday.)</div></div><div style="text-align: center;"><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div></div><div style="text-align: center;"><div style="text-align: justify;">Anyway, on a previous anniversary a few years ago of having first moved into this abode, I took a trip along to my former neighbourhood, the one from which we moved in 1972. On the way there, I noticed that 14 trees had been cut down, and when I arrived at my destination, I saw that another couple at the bottom of the street where I'd lived had also been removed. To my mind, it was like discovering that 16 childhood friends had suddenly expired, and been disposed of before I'd had a chance to pay my respects.</div></div><div style="text-align: center;"><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">I resent change. Sometimes I feel as if I no longer live in the town I grew up in, but rather one that bears a bit of a resemblance to it. It's almost like living in an alternate universe, wherein I spend my time wondering if I'll ever be able to figure out a way to return to my own. I wish I had magical power over the very atoms, because then I could revert everything back to how it all used to be. Once more I'd be able to visit vanished buildings and places I knew as a youth, and feel as if I belonged again, instead of (just like<b><i> MEL </i></b><i style="font-weight: bold;">TORME</i>) a stranger in my own home town.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">There's a time in life when we feel<i> 'in-sync' </i>with the world, that it's there for<i><b> us </b></i>and dances to the same beat that <i><b>we</b></i> do. Then, one day, we suddenly realise that we no longer recognise the tune and that it's best to<i> 'sit this one out'</i>. It's then we know that<i><b> 'our' </b></i>moment has come and gone, and that we've now become spectators, as opposed to the participants we once were. Other dancers have taken to the floor, and we can only observe and wonder what happened to the melody and lyrics. For us the dance is over, and willingly or not, we must accept our relegation.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">There was a time when I felt at home in this neighbourhood. It was<b><i> mine </i></b>(or, at least, as much mine as anyone's), and I was one of its younger inhabitants, and an inheritor of what the future would bring. Now, however, I'm one of the rapidly diminishing<i><b> 'old guard'</b></i>, and a brash, new, fresh contingent of youngsters overrun the place, treating it as their own. I often find myself feeling like an <i><b>intruder</b></i> who's invading their space (much as I feel like<i><b> they're </b></i>intruders invading<i><b> mine</b></i>), and I realise the gossamer nature of the sense of<i> 'belonging' </i>we humans feel in relation to our surroundings, and just how transient it can be.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">Anyway, to be honest, I never really had a clear idea of where I was going with this when I started, and it's now become a bit meandering so I'll draw it to a close. If it's prompted any thoughts or observations of your own, feel free to record them for posterity in our contemplative comments section. We may get something worth reading out of this post yet, so don't be shy now.</div></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4847913448724143443.post-12261209597763702542023-10-18T19:39:00.009+01:002024-01-26T16:24:53.626+00:00WHERE WERE YOU IN SEPTEMBER 1967?<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-v89czngKXk0/UV1x8NGhTmI/AAAAAAAARVo/cxeKElUTS2U/s1600/Pg+(19).jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="270" src="https://4.bp.blogspot.com/-v89czngKXk0/UV1x8NGhTmI/AAAAAAAARVo/cxeKElUTS2U/s400/Pg+(19).jpg" width="400" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><em><span style="font-size: x-small;">"Looking back to those days of old ere the gate shut to behind me..."</span></em></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"> From <strong><em>'The Golden Age'</em></strong> by <strong><em>Kenneth Grahame</em></strong>.</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ffa400; font-size: x-large;">******</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><b><span style="color: red; font-size: large;">T</span></b>he above photo was taken in September 1967 by departing teacher <strong><em>Mrs. Tighe</em></strong> (not sure about the spelling, to be honest), in front of the annexed huts in the grounds of my primary school. I can actually recall the photo being taken, and can only assume that Mrs. Tighe wanted a memento of her 'angelic' pupils to look back on in later years. Maybe she was just trying out for a career as a photographer though, as she made copies available (can't recall whether she charged us or not) to those of us who wanted one.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;">The image is off-centre, as you can see, but I decided to leave it uncropped in order to make an ego-feeding speculation. The exact middle of the photo lies between myself (I'm wearing my <i><b>blue jumper</b></i>, but that wasn't the day I was at the zoo with <i><b>Dougal</b></i> and <i><b>Father Ted</b></i>) and <i><b>David Drummond</b></i> (on <i><b>my</b></i> left, but <i><b>your</b></i> right), and I can't help but think that Mrs. Tighe naturally gravitated towards me as the most obvious centre of attention. (I know what you're thinking, but I prefer <i><b>my</b></i> version.)</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;">The blond boy on crutches further along in the same row is <strong><em>Gavin Reid</em></strong>, alas now sadly deceased. He had his right leg strapped up behind him all through primary school (due to some medical condition), and it came as a surprise when I later saw him in secondary school walking normally without the crutches. He started secondary the year after me, so he may have discarded the crutches in his last year at primary, or in the school holidays between changing schools. He was killed in a motorbike accident, aged only about 18 or 19, I think, in the late '70s. (<i><b>Robert Baird</b></i>, next to him on the left of the picture, died of Covid in January of 2021, and <i><b>Alan Bowie</b></i>, far left, end row, died of cancer in January of 2013, though I didn't learn of his demise until over ten years later in September 2023.) </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;">Not long before Gavin died, my parents told me that someone had asked them if they were <em>"Gordon Robson's mum and dad"</em> as they waited at a bus stop, and when they confirmed that they were, asked them to pass on his regards. <em>"Gavin Reid was his name"</em> they said, recounting the incident to me when they got home that night. Poor Gavin. To endure a childhood infirmity for so long, and then be cut short in his prime. He used to play football in the playground, using his crutches for support as he kicked the ball around, or sometimes using one of them to blooter the ball between the 'goalpost jumpers'. I can still see him in my mind's eye to this day, hopping around as fast as any jackrabbit ever could.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;">Returning to David Drummond, he used to trot along to my house on November 5th for two (maybe three) years in a row, in order to partake in our 'Bonfire Night' celebrations. Lest you think we indulged on a grand scale, let me disabuse you of any such notion by revealing that it consisted mainly of waving sparklers around and setting off a couple or so bangers, with a handful of rockets from the smallest box of fireworks available. Nothing grand by any means, but David's parents didn't observe the 'Fawkes festivities', so he shared in our meagre show held within the perimeters of our back garden.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br /></div><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg7u24oJXwwXbPLqUpjbJVGGIc523gvoLStepM7US8EbHLMrXKV_1s3Ovf3d46qkf3kP30nxSzdzwr5D8SHDpDxD5Kxs2OT9Frdzh_tJNAUtJBrLerfk6_3ljWgpoDQGG1EFMOBU6Ubsfi3z69VEw7iqEakDexCiMTxzkp29-y8N6yvBHjdp8_sWqKdtM0/s1200/Santa%20(1).JPG" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1200" data-original-width="991" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg7u24oJXwwXbPLqUpjbJVGGIc523gvoLStepM7US8EbHLMrXKV_1s3Ovf3d46qkf3kP30nxSzdzwr5D8SHDpDxD5Kxs2OT9Frdzh_tJNAUtJBrLerfk6_3ljWgpoDQGG1EFMOBU6Ubsfi3z69VEw7iqEakDexCiMTxzkp29-y8N6yvBHjdp8_sWqKdtM0/s320/Santa%20(1).JPG" width="264" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">A 2023 replacement for the Santa Raymond gave me</span></td></tr></tbody></table><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;">Three along from me on my right is <strong><em>Raymond Bennie</em></strong>, who emigrated to Australia around '68 or '69. I haven't seen him since and sometimes wonder what happened to him and whether he's ever been back to visit. On the only occasion I was ever in his house, he gave me a stuffed Santa (which may have been a cat's toy) and I have fond memories of me and my brother playing 'dodge it' as we tried to hit each other with poor ol' Mr. Claus from opposite sides of our bedroom on Saturday or Sunday mornings.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;">At least two other people in the photo (<i><b>Audrey</b></i> <i><b>Hamilton</b></i> and <i><b>Gordon Fairbairn</b></i>) also emigrated Down Under in later years, Louise/Audrey around 1983, and Gordon in '88 or '89. I know Australia's a big place, but I'd like to think that they run into each other on occasion and reminisce about happy days gone by. Just imagine that, in the fullness of time, everyone in the photo (apart from myself) were to emigrate over there - I wonder if they'd even remember me?</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;">Ah, so many familiar faces, so many meandering memories. Funny how events from around 56 years ago can sometimes seem as fresh and as close as what happened only yesterday.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ffa400; font-size: x-large;">******</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;">36 years ago, I returned to the playground with a framed copy of the photo from 20 years before, and snapped myself beside it on the same spot. The annexed wooden huts had been gone for some years by then. The school followed them into oblivion at the beginning of 2014 after a replacement building had been erected in the football fields nearby.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-ygCaY-xOPRk/UV3U0uSKZXI/AAAAAAAARV4/VVogXQkZpJc/s1600/2012-07-02_8.JPG" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" height="288" src="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-ygCaY-xOPRk/UV3U0uSKZXI/AAAAAAAARV4/VVogXQkZpJc/s400/2012-07-02_8.JPG" width="400" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">In front of the former site of the huts in September 1987</span></td></tr></tbody></table>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4847913448724143443.post-9684989343637442792023-08-27T18:36:00.001+01:002023-08-27T18:36:42.635+01:00CHILDHOOD'S END...<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-V4sKalFfzMM/X2KezeBAPEI/AAAAAAABLn8/vC4T0j1dJmYCBX-W3zArulKamsNaO0rowCLcBGAsYHQ/s1000/Caterpillar.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1000" data-original-width="852" height="320" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-V4sKalFfzMM/X2KezeBAPEI/AAAAAAABLn8/vC4T0j1dJmYCBX-W3zArulKamsNaO0rowCLcBGAsYHQ/s320/Caterpillar.jpg" /></a></div><p></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: red;"><b>M</b></span></span>y 14th birthday was the first birthday I ever spent in my present home, and earlier birthdays in my previous house still seemed so recent that I didn't yet miss the years they represented. It's only when the recent past has 'matured' (like an old wine) and is no longer so close that we begin to pine for it, and such was the case with me. (It's not only absence that makes the heart grow fonder, but distance too.) The last couple of years in my former domicile were not the same as the years that preceded them. I'd already progressed beyond the stage of viewing the surrounding environs of my neighbourhood as my playground, and was venturing further afield in search of adventure. My taste for toys (in the main) was diminishing, and the occasional item aside, comics had become my primary interest instead of being just one of them.</p><p></p><p style="text-align: justify;">The 'fabric' of my life had changed and was continuing to do so, but it was doing so while escaping my attention, so when my family flitted to my current residence in June 1972, my life continued for the first couple of years or so in much the same way as the last couple of years in my prior abode. And it was this sense of continuity in the pattern of my life over the transitional period between one house and the other that dulled my awareness of an incontrovertible fact - namely, that my childhood had already ended in my former home and I had progressed from one stage of my life to another without being fully aware of the 'metamorphosis'.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">It was only with the passage of time and many years after the fact that I realised my actual childhood 'belonged' to a previous house (and other houses before it), and that I'd left that blissful state unawares, as cognizance of the process of one's early life unfolding in stages doesn't consciously register until some way down the track. As I've said before in other posts, life as it happens segues from one 'scene' to another in a subtle cross-fade, but when we look back years later, it seems to jump-cut between them. That's because we recognise, categorise, and compartmentalise retroactively, not during the actual process of everyday life itself.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">I think that's why I sometimes make little 'pilgrimages' back to old houses and neighbourhoods, to pay my respects to my demised childhood, even though, as I said, I wasn't aware it had passed away at the time. And hey, perhaps it hadn't, and I'm assigning an arbitrary time of expiry as it subjectively seems to me today, not as it appeared back then. Whatever the case, it makes me wonder how others regard this subject, which in turn leads me to ask the following question to those who feel inclined to answer:</p><p style="text-align: justify;">Were <b><i>you </i></b>aware of when you ceased to be a child and moved on to the next level of your biological, emotional, and psychological evolution, or - like myself - was it not until many years later while trying to assemble the jigsaw of your life to view the full picture (up 'til now), that you realised you had transformed from a caterpillar to a butterfly without being aware of the fact? Thoughts, theories, and observations will be made very welcome in the comments section.</p><p style="text-align: justify;"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-pTNInDDbbm0/X2MqNfRPTYI/AAAAAAABLoc/nLvD3Hyqa2MgnIS2H8opIYdXxfFQH63WACLcBGAsYHQ/s1000/Butterfly.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="619" data-original-width="1000" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-pTNInDDbbm0/X2MqNfRPTYI/AAAAAAABLoc/nLvD3Hyqa2MgnIS2H8opIYdXxfFQH63WACLcBGAsYHQ/s320/Butterfly.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4847913448724143443.post-38287232164647844692023-08-26T09:38:00.000+01:002023-08-26T09:38:00.520+01:00MELANCHOLY MUSINGS...<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-nIaVNGcsrw0/X2o1Ow8QR2I/AAAAAAABLs4/GUDIIqkZn0If11Ew9tVNFzXhkmjLxAJMACLcBGAsYHQ/s672/Sundown.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em; text-align: center;"><img border="0" data-original-height="420" data-original-width="672" height="250" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-nIaVNGcsrw0/X2o1Ow8QR2I/AAAAAAABLs4/GUDIIqkZn0If11Ew9tVNFzXhkmjLxAJMACLcBGAsYHQ/w400-h250/Sundown.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><p></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: red;"><b>C</b></span></span>hildhood. An age of innocence where time seems to hold no sway, and awareness of the future only extends as far as looking forward to school holidays, birthday and Christmas presents, and the latest issue of your favourite comic going on sale. That apart, there only seems to exist one big 'now', and whatever state you find yourself in feels like it will never end. The house you're living in will be your home forever, you'll always be a schoolboy (or girl), and your parents and siblings will be around for as long as you are - which feels like it will be for eternity. Childhood - the best days of our lives we're told, and unless you lived in a third world country beset by war and poverty or were the victim of abuse or cruelty, they <b><i>are</i></b>.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">It's all downhill from there I'm sad to say. Age, illness, deaths of loved ones, financial and family worries, uncertainty about a future you never even realised lay ahead of you, so accustomed were you to the eternal present you once thought you had. Sure, there are good moments too as the years pass and your youth recedes, but they're always bittersweet once you reach that age where you're painfully aware there are more years behind you than lie ahead. Do policemen, teachers, shop assistants, workmen, etc., all look younger than you recall them being in your day? They're not, it's just that you're getting older and at the stage where you're beginning to 'fret to find your bedtime near'. The final bedtime that is.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">So now that I've cheered everyone up with my positive and optimistic assessment, let me ask you all a question. Are you fulfilled in your life; do you have a goodly store of pleasant memories while yet adding to them each and every day, or do you feel that you never achieved your potential and still have so much more you want to do, while being all too well aware that you really don't have enough time ahead of you in which to do it? Linger a moment in the darker recesses of your mind, consider your life up to now, and then share your regrets (if any) and sadness of how quickly life seems to pass without us being aware of it until we near journey's end.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">(There's no doubt about it - I'll need to stop taking those happiness pills.)</p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4847913448724143443.post-27302919406072171492023-07-27T06:18:00.005+01:002023-07-27T06:23:33.015+01:00REFLECTING ON A REFLECTION...<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><b><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEixA1Ujj9HNuQa2TC-m7tcHUChroIHXCnKQqE3NJoKj4jzcaKNlQ-DioyU1xke7JfZsqP-4M0pksjQlX4ewLjzQ2p_6jCwigG-m16VN4Af13VjcTJXcHogtrjbkGScj-hz9X3U5Q4Cat_boOaloHHjoKA6sZSAxWfMBoR-dUgKg_gLehv5VELj1KXwg/s1200/Open%20Door.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1200" data-original-width="661" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEixA1Ujj9HNuQa2TC-m7tcHUChroIHXCnKQqE3NJoKj4jzcaKNlQ-DioyU1xke7JfZsqP-4M0pksjQlX4ewLjzQ2p_6jCwigG-m16VN4Af13VjcTJXcHogtrjbkGScj-hz9X3U5Q4Cat_boOaloHHjoKA6sZSAxWfMBoR-dUgKg_gLehv5VELj1KXwg/w220-h400/Open%20Door.jpg" width="220" /></a></b></div><p></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><b><span style="color: red; font-size: large;">R</span></b>egular readers may remember me mentioning the house I and my family lived in between 1983 and '87, before moving back to our previous abode, the one in which I now reside today. A friend of my brother stayed in the spare room of that other house for around 9 months or so before getting a place of his own, and my brother moved into a flat after around 3 years, leaving just myself, my parents and the dog in a house that was far too big for us. Then, by a fortuitous quirk of fate, our former home became available so we returned to it after 4 years and 3 months away.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">It had been madness to move to that other house from the start, as I was 24, going on 25, and my brother was 28, going on 29; did our parents think we were going to live with them forever? Interestingly, a few years ago, I found a letter from the council, which revealed that my parents had already started looking for another house only a year after moving into the new one. Anyway, while still in that other house, I eventually 'inherited' both rooms that had once been occupied by my brother and his pal, meaning I had 3 rooms to myself on the upper floor.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">In the middle room, the open doorway looked out onto a vertically-long mirror on the hall wall opposite, reflecting part of the interior of the room, which looked remarkably similar to the layout of my bedroom in our previous (and now my present) home when I was in the hallway and looking through the open door. In our new home I'd lie on my spare bed (my main one was in one of the adjoining rooms), gazing at the reflection, and pretend that I was looking into my old room as it afforded me some pleasing feelings of nostalgia.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">However, before I continue, let me first explain something so that you can fully envision the picture I'm trying to paint in the paragraphs directly following the one below.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">Nowadays I sometimes use my bathroom as a kind of 'workshop' whenever I'm repairing old comics or giving them a slight colour touch to restore their visual appearance. I'll sit on the toilet seat (with the lid down) and with a board across my knees, and apply my restoration skills to whatever comic requires my attention. The reason for this is because the bathroom window is on the left side of the seat, and the natural daylight which streams through usually compensates for my slight colour-blindness by enabling me to better match whatever colours need touching up (oo-er, missus) and/or applying Chinese archival repair tape.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">Obviously, because I'm not in there using the facilities for their usual purpose, I don't bother closing the bathroom door, which means that I can look out across the hall landing at my room on the other side. When my bedroom door is also open, it looks like the reflection in the mirror of my former room in the previous house, though in this instance I'm looking at the actual original view, not a reversed image of it. Incidentally, the mirror nowadays hangs on the hall wall downstairs, where it was originally situated before we flitted in 1983 and then relocated it upstairs across from what became a spare room for me.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">Anyway, I just thought it odd that what was previously a reflection of a former 'reality' is now once again the reality itself, and when I remember this, I'm reflecting on what was at one time a mere reflection. In that other house I missed my old room, and now, in this house, I miss the reflection that resembled it - even though I'm reunited with the original. Surely there's some kind of irony or significance inherent in the situation, though perhaps I should have spared you the tedious detail of my reminiscence? I'm sure you'll tell me - either in a comment or by an all-pervading lack of any response at all.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">Admit it - you don't get this kind of deep, psychological introspective <strike>nonsense</strike> pondering of such trivial matters on other blog sites, do you? What do you mean, <i>"Thank goodness for that!"</i>?</p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4847913448724143443.post-5187862276546291812023-05-24T17:17:00.001+01:002023-05-27T18:38:42.057+01:00GUEST POST by CHRISTOPHER NEVELL: The RETURN Of ULYSSES - Or 'Away And Back Again'...<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhfalKCSFaMj4sW5LkNcqGQ4mQEqLIHroRNm60vOErVpr0jQgTh8uZ-jKjaYoNKJFCvjifX2CxLt4XBpuBNmmzaA5w_XffPKn0vvR_UseMurbjD_YXgeCXHwiT54gfNefc38-JqsfCanDuTut_-s-aUSGz88ccNAf1K6xzVJbCw2-bcQrkH5LH1fmQ_/s1000/CN%201a.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em; text-align: center;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1000" data-original-width="934" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhfalKCSFaMj4sW5LkNcqGQ4mQEqLIHroRNm60vOErVpr0jQgTh8uZ-jKjaYoNKJFCvjifX2CxLt4XBpuBNmmzaA5w_XffPKn0vvR_UseMurbjD_YXgeCXHwiT54gfNefc38-JqsfCanDuTut_-s-aUSGz88ccNAf1K6xzVJbCw2-bcQrkH5LH1fmQ_/w374-h400/CN%201a.jpg" width="374" /></a></div><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: red; font-size: large;"><b>I</b></span>n May 1976, at the age of 10, my younger brother <i><b>James</b></i> and I climbed into the family car with our dearest belongings and said farewell to our childhood home. As we drove across town to our new house we had a sense of excitement, but our parents were subdued. Over the 12 years prior to that day, my parents' dream home on the seafront in Sussex had transformed into an unsustainable financial burden. They had to sell and so we crossed to the other side of town.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">Looking back now, the new house we moved to was nowhere near as good as the old one, but at that age I judged it by how close my friends were and, of course, the quality of the local newsagents. By both counts, it was positive. I also now had my own room and soon set about unpacking my comics. My father had bundled them up with string, and so my fledging collection of <i><b>Beanos</b></i>, <i><b>TV Comics</b></i>, <i><b>Marvel UKs</b></i> and more, quickly found space within reaching distance of my bed. With a new radio next to me, this was my set-up for years ahead, and soon I was adding early issues of <i><b>2000 A.D.</b></i> and <i><b>Doctor Who</b></i> to the weekly shop.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiNW40XIOoCUwKc1YNDT5PuxzcXV94kIYlJZLVcZjPxeByiN1gUNfoc8i1Rqsp68eXBf4eOfCzN40vxqgr6-v0soJm9rBDAeommkySt0q0vsI-TIofB4jbdlGvI_NMuxRovJfeBxrthemwZK8w1AEHtyP6VkPv5mKs54bwZpU9I7xYkD-am1MeyIzAD/s1000/CN%207.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="714" data-original-width="1000" height="285" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiNW40XIOoCUwKc1YNDT5PuxzcXV94kIYlJZLVcZjPxeByiN1gUNfoc8i1Rqsp68eXBf4eOfCzN40vxqgr6-v0soJm9rBDAeommkySt0q0vsI-TIofB4jbdlGvI_NMuxRovJfeBxrthemwZK8w1AEHtyP6VkPv5mKs54bwZpU9I7xYkD-am1MeyIzAD/w400-h285/CN%207.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><p style="text-align: justify;">For me, these comics were not just reading material, they were more like souvenirs of past days. If I picked up <i><b>Avengers #1</b></i> then I was back in the Post Office around lunchtime on Friday 22nd September 1973. The <i><b>Look-In</b></i> issue with the <i><b>Bowie</b></i> cover was a memorable walk to the shops a few months earlier. <i><b>Titans #1</b></i> in late October 1975 was the comic I was gifted on a beach walk to tell me I was going into hospital for an operation the following day. The retained <i><b>Pippin</b></i> and <i><b>Playlands</b></i> reminded me of very early years when the Saturday morning paperboy's clatter of the letterbox sent us racing down the stairs. James was the Pippin reader as he liked the glossy paper, I had the Playland with its matt finish as it had more of a grown-up newspaper feel.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">My parents said the relocation was only a temporary situation, but after three years, the regularly-mentioned move back to the seafront 'next year' never came about. The downgrade had stuck and my parents' own ambitions being thwarted took on a more personal meaning. Nothing seemed quite so good now. I'd gone to a different secondary school from my friends and the comics themselves seemed a poor pastiche of past glories, especially my favourite Marvel line.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjt95JjeIL6lWDhpzS40fDabeGmjVTyL13Y8Th6DGfzLmGQMBsP2D6IZco84xO4yDETitLU4RTeXAIVkpRw7uP4jy6BNLO1gKA5InHt4tqP-dpRUg-V8opChkokjV-ujYWyfyW8VEq0FenIf9tL_Lx78zyj_luzcFbES46QA-Ua3gNof4yk5a72B0_E/s1000/CN%208.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="750" data-original-width="1000" height="300" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjt95JjeIL6lWDhpzS40fDabeGmjVTyL13Y8Th6DGfzLmGQMBsP2D6IZco84xO4yDETitLU4RTeXAIVkpRw7uP4jy6BNLO1gKA5InHt4tqP-dpRUg-V8opChkokjV-ujYWyfyW8VEq0FenIf9tL_Lx78zyj_luzcFbES46QA-Ua3gNof4yk5a72B0_E/w400-h300/CN%208.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><p style="text-align: justify;">The new home stayed in the family for decades, far longer than the first one, and in between university and jobs, I began to yearn for the old place. We never really let go of it in our family dinner conversations and it stood there as testament to the family's own high tidemark of achievement. Going to that part of town always saw a tweak in the journey - just to see how number 7 was.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">In time I moved out, met and married Tracey, and then later we had our own family, though still living in the same town. We created new memories and not only did my family grow, but so did my collection, up into the stratosphere. The Pippin and Playlands were now relegated behind collectable original UK art and <i><b>Silver Age</b></i> Marvels, but that first house was still the 'golden age'.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjDjPbzuJlkd-jUdjRB8ZBwQeMEXCY9QxVyehX3RpYflQfhBo15tn0S29Ripcyd1r4Zhh2x94VCTuNhPx92mdaZ9VMZ4Zn0mtNsbLN-gROEgcvNFuj9Jw953wDGK5UhfuJme1bQk3owq_1Wj_MviNtTPrcmWl8eWjDK8DY0sK-au-XLuujs6GUUgGP4/s1000/CN%203.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1000" data-original-width="1000" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjDjPbzuJlkd-jUdjRB8ZBwQeMEXCY9QxVyehX3RpYflQfhBo15tn0S29Ripcyd1r4Zhh2x94VCTuNhPx92mdaZ9VMZ4Zn0mtNsbLN-gROEgcvNFuj9Jw953wDGK5UhfuJme1bQk3owq_1Wj_MviNtTPrcmWl8eWjDK8DY0sK-au-XLuujs6GUUgGP4/w400-h400/CN%203.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><p style="text-align: justify;">Inevitably, my two children picked up on my indirect drives around town, and it became a bit of an in-joke between the four of us.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">Sadly, just prior to the Covid lockdown, James passed away at short notice. Due to a health condition his life was always going to be shorter than any of us wanted, but we never reckoned on 51. I spent the last days sleeping over at the hospice. It was a close time together, but he never complained and then he departed to join my already long-gone parents. The one thing that struck me though, was he said his happiest days had been at number 7, which saddened me even further as surely he'd found more to enjoy in life after his first 8 years. I couldn't disagree though, as I'd always known it.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4yjD7BL8GtdgDzBVxkZAx4XFHYSSSFbmPWQ-81-4ARTHhrhnnQadJhH0NqvgUtmETrPeS0XTBq12xSxqcde6kw_fGq6WaKXyyDbTS2iGy4qNq6JACrI_Pc28M71mvfIVIudpQCDuh4cVz017wGu8CcnYNlJEWdkeMikRgINaSk22BLqauflN6DS3l/s1000/CN%202.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1000" data-original-width="551" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh4yjD7BL8GtdgDzBVxkZAx4XFHYSSSFbmPWQ-81-4ARTHhrhnnQadJhH0NqvgUtmETrPeS0XTBq12xSxqcde6kw_fGq6WaKXyyDbTS2iGy4qNq6JACrI_Pc28M71mvfIVIudpQCDuh4cVz017wGu8CcnYNlJEWdkeMikRgINaSk22BLqauflN6DS3l/w220-h400/CN%202.jpg" width="220" /></a></div><p></p><p style="text-align: justify;">Having no wife or children, James was very generous in what he left to me. He wanted me to go and live back near the seafront and I inherited enough for Tracey and I to ponder that move. Then one day my daughter came rushing downstairs, waving her IPad and shouting <i>"Dad, isn't this the house you used to live in?"</i> Those little diverted drives had made their impression. She was right, it was the very same house.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">A viewing was arranged and, though brief, it confirmed what I'd always known - number 7's DNA was utterly etched in my mind. I navigated the rooms at ease, even looking for and finding the chip on the banister I'd made and been scolded for, back in 1974. I made a point of opening and standing in the larder, next to where the potato and onion stacker had been. I leant on the small bedroom inner windowsill the way I used to. I stood in the old nursery and breathed in the air. The room sizes felt right, despite the fact that I'd grown. However, it was a shock not to find the back garden as we'd left it. I'd anticipated the trees would be more mature, but they were gone. Everything was different - even alien. It just wasn't the back garden I remembered. Then I spotted the familiar immovable stone bench right at the end, an anchor all this time. The change around it now seemed more plausible and palatable. I sat down on it for the first time in decades.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjEHx-JbZwpkwqxA4fMM93KDM_7vARKJ7DbhJiRLwqLdTwxtsfSrHlGXFCVZGA7BFx1emAxtmvFz9dlFOB-bpx-7vlz-kKM-lQNIbTwLrcXuU5dVEz7WrqHvtWDeG5jcEvwtHbQ5DEJme8FREM9hsn5sOpJq8ddgalPSM1NXX8MSNRI_uXIQtYbMdKc/s1000/CN%205.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1000" data-original-width="703" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjEHx-JbZwpkwqxA4fMM93KDM_7vARKJ7DbhJiRLwqLdTwxtsfSrHlGXFCVZGA7BFx1emAxtmvFz9dlFOB-bpx-7vlz-kKM-lQNIbTwLrcXuU5dVEz7WrqHvtWDeG5jcEvwtHbQ5DEJme8FREM9hsn5sOpJq8ddgalPSM1NXX8MSNRI_uXIQtYbMdKc/w281-h400/CN%205.jpg" width="281" /></a></div><p style="text-align: justify;">I stepped back out through the front door and then down the driveway to the pavement. I whispered a goodbye for the moment, not yet knowing whether it would be forever or not.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">However, a deal was done and four months later, on my birthday, we picked up the keys. As I turned the key in the lock I momentarily pretended it was only the day after we'd left. It had taken time, but my old family (no longer here) had returned. I took something personal into the house for each of them as if they were with me. My father's tin box with his name printed on it, my mother's <i><b>Red Rum</b></i> book, and my brother's box of early toys. Each of these consciously and carefully carried over the threshold.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiQpj3MthfR4-jxczt5YhmpNWxB-0DgoobVQj04RqROHBpHj1KJic4jJnFDx5vqZDNHIXN5ng1jUjLgkmN8MYqp3b1KkiCAdG4a-Folc6eVIhI99HZh4ZOhnKZfa6AyOM9SsSLtMRYqDIOO8t6NCOp1EKtY3qd6cvDZ0CQVYGnzUCUuY1tb55O5EBuD/s1000/CN%206.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1000" data-original-width="631" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiQpj3MthfR4-jxczt5YhmpNWxB-0DgoobVQj04RqROHBpHj1KJic4jJnFDx5vqZDNHIXN5ng1jUjLgkmN8MYqp3b1KkiCAdG4a-Folc6eVIhI99HZh4ZOhnKZfa6AyOM9SsSLtMRYqDIOO8t6NCOp1EKtY3qd6cvDZ0CQVYGnzUCUuY1tb55O5EBuD/w253-h400/CN%206.jpg" width="253" /></a></div><p style="text-align: justify;">The four of us had decided that we wouldn't be living in a museum. The house needed updating and expanding to properly and comfortably accommodate the four of us. I took the view that, had my old family never moved out, alterations and additions would have occurred anyway over the years, so it would never have been preserved 'in amber'. However, updating requires money, so I'll have to consider selling some of my comics collection to help raise the necessary funds. </p><p style="text-align: justify;">Letting go of comics does not come easily. For every <i><b>Donald And Mickey</b></i> that was never going to make the full trip, there's a <i><b>Mighty World Of Marvel</b></i> that was meant to. Also, which is more important - the last issue of a set or the first merger issue the following week? Are graphic novels or single issues the ones to keep? I type this and stare at the wall. Yes, I've made the return home, but sadly, to meet the cost of improvements, not everything that's come home with me will be staying.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiAaSbv_S_OO8_6HZoOpwUk2InHptZ3k4U0d9CQ75hNdGKmCHBrJly0l4rSrDczf4-QPICXzUhgtuAhK0CjVcWZ2X23jLaHWxjtRuRO3PBuuOf4wvoLcZooI8M3-1NcDavfQuEDFtxM3dfotwRzm45vyEDhckkG4xpB9aoTMJ33qFDKAT4P-WYanLpG/s1000/CN%204.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1000" data-original-width="714" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiAaSbv_S_OO8_6HZoOpwUk2InHptZ3k4U0d9CQ75hNdGKmCHBrJly0l4rSrDczf4-QPICXzUhgtuAhK0CjVcWZ2X23jLaHWxjtRuRO3PBuuOf4wvoLcZooI8M3-1NcDavfQuEDFtxM3dfotwRzm45vyEDhckkG4xpB9aoTMJ33qFDKAT4P-WYanLpG/w285-h400/CN%204.jpg" width="285" /></a></div><p style="text-align: justify;">However, some will pick themselves to stay. They're the memory ones. <i><b>Spider-Man Comics Weekly #55</b></i>, bought in town where <i><b>Boots</b></i> is now. That first TV Comic bought at <i><b>Teleski's</b></i> near my Gran's. <i><b>Dracula Lives #1</b></i> from <i><b>Watson's</b></i>, which I took to school at lunchtime, and so on. And it's with those souvenirs that the house comes alive again, with my old family now mixing in with the new. Moments that perhaps should be remembered with new souvenirs.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">Interestingly, I'd considered what would've happened if the house on either side had been available instead. If I’d moved into either Number 5 or 9, with new folk going in and out of Number 7, that would likely have created an imbalance within me, akin to one of those <i><b>Star Trek</b></i> episodes when everyone is carrying on normally, but there’s one who senses that something is 'off' - and it is.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjLxXe6cD1wn0YZ6JRRjoR4ZolM9pWp9t-ihhIXa1YpSHynnDHPO2ozOv2T2ZXqluPgA6435gPGMkntsqnfbRzd_ciDVQ-oDO9E4R36RVqpXYzVpXcMVZe1lCf2K1oOwOilABanQmgRlG6kuxz35_pJyYBpScmLLTE1zdsrEkgfXOxWxklERhYNz_F9/s1000/CN%201.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1000" data-original-width="667" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjLxXe6cD1wn0YZ6JRRjoR4ZolM9pWp9t-ihhIXa1YpSHynnDHPO2ozOv2T2ZXqluPgA6435gPGMkntsqnfbRzd_ciDVQ-oDO9E4R36RVqpXYzVpXcMVZe1lCf2K1oOwOilABanQmgRlG6kuxz35_pJyYBpScmLLTE1zdsrEkgfXOxWxklERhYNz_F9/w266-h400/CN%201.jpg" width="266" /></a></div><p style="text-align: justify;">Given everything I've said, you could be forgiven for thinking that I regard this absolutely as my forever home and that I’ll be carried out in a coffin. The thing is, my legs have felt tired since childhood and I can foresee a day when the stairs might be just too much of a struggle for me. </p><p style="text-align: justify;">So I plan to be here for 20 years, but then move into a bungalow. It would be tragic to move back and die at the foot of the stairs. Imagine that - as a kid running over the spot where you later die, then getting yourself away from there, and then putting yourself right back there for it to happen. So, getting back to the point, I intend to leave on my own terms when I know my time here is properly done. There is one alternative of course - a stairlift. I'll make the final decision when that moment comes.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj8-VMe2EBgxuAsAW1wdUrXaQA38IWW8MpdcQSSY7RZYYDHquXALY6aHfcy1tucTsbs_Lt2833CnRQ8dEW37KOhUMA5hNXu4lt6rbUKIrDlo7b6NLXpuXEE_fBA9A3iEO5-I713djxTupDBf8eO60_uQ2casHOQ5zZJ_luK2xROdpmL8tSP28duP3-u/s1000/CN%209.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1000" data-original-width="751" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj8-VMe2EBgxuAsAW1wdUrXaQA38IWW8MpdcQSSY7RZYYDHquXALY6aHfcy1tucTsbs_Lt2833CnRQ8dEW37KOhUMA5hNXu4lt6rbUKIrDlo7b6NLXpuXEE_fBA9A3iEO5-I713djxTupDBf8eO60_uQ2casHOQ5zZJ_luK2xROdpmL8tSP28duP3-u/w300-h400/CN%209.jpg" width="300" /></a></div></div><p style="text-align: justify;">Sometimes, as I sit on the old stone bench in the garden and listen to my wife and children chatting nearby, I also seem to hear the voices of my parents and brother, whose presence yet permeates the place of my boyhood. The past and the present combined, to accompany me into the future. In returning here, I feel that I've finally fulfilled my parents' wish, which fills me with a sense of achievement on their behalf, as well as my own and my brother's.</p><p style="text-align: justify;"><i>"Made it, ma (and pa) - top of the world!"</i> </p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4847913448724143443.post-80801268588491422662022-11-24T22:02:00.002+00:002022-11-24T22:02:28.971+00:00GIT ALONG, LITTLE DOGGIES...<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-lcH8qrBjKYQ/Xndff4EWPfI/AAAAAAABJp4/yvEAWGi8csUzrsS70FvPvuMUYrJcZJiMQCLcBGAsYHQ/s1600/Doggies.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em; text-align: center;"><img border="0" data-original-height="965" data-original-width="1200" height="321" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-lcH8qrBjKYQ/Xndff4EWPfI/AAAAAAABJp4/yvEAWGi8csUzrsS70FvPvuMUYrJcZJiMQCLcBGAsYHQ/s400/Doggies.JPG" width="400" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: red; font-size: large;"><b>T</b></span>he above picture-frame hangs in my hall above the kitchen door and shows two photos each of the three dogs we had (at different times) from January 1973 to November 1998. The first was <b style="font-style: italic;">PRINCE </b>(1 & 2), the second was <b style="font-style: italic;">TARA </b>(3 & 4), and the third was <b style="font-style: italic;">ZARA </b>(5 & 6). The interesting thing about these photos is that they were all taken within a few feet of each other in the same area of the same back garden over a period of 20-plus years.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;">Let's number the top pics 1-3 and the lower ones 4-6. So going from left to right, pics 1 & 2 (Prince) are on the path seen behind Tara in pic 4, and pic 5 (Zara) is on the path to the right (our pov) of pic 4, which is in front of the doorway seen in pic 3 (Tara). Pic 6 (Zara in her kennel) is on the left (our pov) of pic 3, and was a different kennel to Tara's, but in the same place that her's once occupied. (Still with me?) <i>"So what?"</i> you may be wondering.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;">Well, we moved to another house in a different neighbourhood in 1983, where Tara lived for the last three years of her life. A month after she died, I bought Zara (who was born a month before Tara passed, so their lives overlapped), and a year after that, we moved back to our previous house. That means there was a gap of just over four years between Tara and Zara living in the same house, so photos of them (and Prince) on the same few feet of pathway of the same garden is somehow very satisfying and significant to me.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;">The dogs never met one another, but they all knew and played in the same garden, and 'posed' for photos, each being captured for posterity within the same few feet of space. How fitting, therefore, that their images are now housed in the same picture frame, almost as if they all shared the garden at one and the same time. Perhaps their spirits romp about together out there, the best of pals, and greet me a with a ghostly bark of welcome whenever I go out to fill the birdfeeders every morning.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;">Anyway, do you have a similar pictorial reminder of any dogs or pets you may've once had, and does it make you smile fondly whenever your eyes fall upon it? Tell all in the comments section.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br /></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4847913448724143443.post-49925060185827388612022-08-29T14:48:00.006+01:002022-09-20T12:35:08.124+01:00THE SINS OF THE SON...<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgIxJhg3ujO4MDS6w4yYbQJS3_sU3N5dEmIAN--xu_CAlzyoNumsfKnsQUHhHp7gXD_6sk8J7A4WZ1HLYM1GdgwoTIWdktm30GUtz5zfT-_R6T1YRCk0-TG8m0Tj-rJnFHngIEIfd3CpTenvUGWA_G7A24F1Efv-jmHVRGiaiEsHw0TbsBlsEDrMJbf/s1000/Stool.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1000" data-original-width="987" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgIxJhg3ujO4MDS6w4yYbQJS3_sU3N5dEmIAN--xu_CAlzyoNumsfKnsQUHhHp7gXD_6sk8J7A4WZ1HLYM1GdgwoTIWdktm30GUtz5zfT-_R6T1YRCk0-TG8m0Tj-rJnFHngIEIfd3CpTenvUGWA_G7A24F1Efv-jmHVRGiaiEsHw0TbsBlsEDrMJbf/s320/Stool.JPG" width="316" /></a></div><p style="text-align: justify;"><b><span style="color: red; font-size: large;">I</span></b> don't remember the precise year - or even the month, come to that. June or July perhaps? Whether I was yet a schoolboy or had left my educational environs is another thing beyond my ability to recall. At a guess I'd say it might've been around the mid-'70s upwards, but I couldn't swear to it. I do remember it was a sunny Saturday, maybe late morning or early afternoon, and I was making my way down to the local town centre, which took me past a church in between my house and the shops.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">On the path leading from the church, I saw my father, coming in my direction and carrying a stool-type piece of furniture he'd just acquired from a jumble sale in the church hall. He asked me if I'd carry it home for him, but I was eager to get to the shops and so resisted his invitation. It would mean retracing my steps home and starting again from scratch, and as I was already at least halfway to my intended destination, it wasn't a delay I was prepared to undergo.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">The stool wasn't heavy, but my father wasn't exactly what you'd call a healthy specimen, so had I been a good and dutiful son, I'd have obliged him. But no, I was eager to be off on my adventures, so my father had to carry his burden home by himself. Yes, I was a bit of a b@st@rd, wasn't I? Anyway, my father survived his trek, and the stool ended up in my bedroom, though whether he'd bought it with that intention or had just succumbed to a whim with no thought as to where the item would go is lost to history.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">Over quarter of a century ago, I re-upholstered the 'lid' of the stool with a material that matched the original and restored its appearance to that which it had before it came into my possession. It still sits in my bedroom and whenever I look at it, I feel a pang of guilt at my callous cold-heartedness in not being prepared to (slightly) inconvenience myself by carrying it home for my father.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">Funny the effect time has, isn't it? I'd like to think its passage has made we wiser and even kinder (though I doubt the latter), and that, were I to have that moment again, I would acquiesce to my father's request and spare him the effort of trudging home with the load on his own. True, he could have stopped and rested whenever he felt the need to and taken the weight off his feet by sitting on the stool, but I take no comfort from that realisation and still feel like a bad 'un for being so selfish.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">Decades later, the 'sins' of the past yet haunt me and hold me to account. And perhaps that's just how it should be if there's to be any kind of justice in the world for missed opportunities of acts of kindness and decency.</p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4847913448724143443.post-83323890392574927672022-01-23T13:51:00.005+00:002022-02-05T14:36:58.352+00:00FINALLY - THE FULFILMENT OF A FAR-AWAY PROMISE...<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEhNTdjD5m5D-tbm1-Db9O90KqblROqeYAU5Xi83vObtD30kVG3gG-Up8D5qQaSNEjCZ5I78WG8Cy9KT20BPZGZGvkYUWsC9VVlbS9kar_8u45lTYwPCWMQcOxeae53k7fyO94d61wYxZCG-xWhhWN71qcPjw9e40f9jQ64QlDvIzbFt0U6lWUI2NTYe=s1200" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><span style="color: red; font-size: large;"><img border="0" data-original-height="827" data-original-width="1200" height="276" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEhNTdjD5m5D-tbm1-Db9O90KqblROqeYAU5Xi83vObtD30kVG3gG-Up8D5qQaSNEjCZ5I78WG8Cy9KT20BPZGZGvkYUWsC9VVlbS9kar_8u45lTYwPCWMQcOxeae53k7fyO94d61wYxZCG-xWhhWN71qcPjw9e40f9jQ64QlDvIzbFt0U6lWUI2NTYe=w400-h276" width="400" /></span></a></div><p></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><i><span style="color: red; font-size: large;">"<b>A</b></span> promise made is a debt unpaid</i>" is an old but true saying, and I recently fulfilled a promise (and paid a debt) over a whopping 50-plus years after making it. I told you in a previous post how my neighbours, <i><b>Robert</b></i> and <i><b>Elaine</b></i>, back around 1969-1970, gave me a <i><b>Santa Claus</b></i> cake-topper I'd coveted, for which I'd promised them a Christmas selection box in exchange. That was the deal I'd proposed, but because they asked for time to consider, I thought they weren't going to go for it - until said Santa, wrapped in Christmas paper, was pushed through my letterbox five or ten minutes later. In the meantime, me and my brother had scoffed most of the contents, leaving only a <i><b>Bounty</b></i> bar to complete my side of the bargain. As I chapped their door and shamefacedly handed it across, I promised I'd give them a full selection box at the earliest opportunity.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">There's another old saying - <i>"The road to Hell is paved with good intentions"</i>, and I never did get around to fulfilling my promise and upholding my side of the deal before we flitted sometime after. It always bothered me slightly, and I was determined, one day, to do the right thing, but the years came and went without me ever doing so. Sadly, Robert died at the beginning of last year, but (on the run-up to Christmas) I got his widow's and sister's addresses from a mutual friend and sent each of them a small selection box (with an explanatory note) to finally fulfil my long-ago promise. They were nothing fancy or expensive, merely a modest token to show I hadn't forgotten and, if I'm honest, to ease my conscience by doing what I should've done over 50 years ago. I regard the two selection boxes as two halves of the same one, as obviously the original promised item would've been divided between Robert and Elaine.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">So am I blowing my own trumpet here and seeking recognition for finally doing the right thing? Not a bit of it, because taking over 50 years to do it puts me in a bad light more than a good one, but I do feel a bit of a weight has been lifted from my shoulders after several decades. Hopefully, Robert's widow and his sister will appreciate the thought behind the gesture, and recognise it as my attempt to make good on a never-quite-forgotten promise that took far too long to complete. And hopefully Robert is looking down and saying with a wink and a smile, <i>"Good on ye, Gordie, I knew you wouldn't let us down in the end."</i> So here's to Robert - I was thinking of him at Christmas and fondly reminiscing about when we were kids with forever seemingly ahead of us. </p><p style="text-align: justify;">Do any of you have any unfulfilled promises you once made that nag at your conscience? And do you still fully intend to make good on them one day? Alleviate some of your guilt by sharing them with your fellow Mellows in the comments section.</p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4847913448724143443.post-14823311267823372562022-01-16T23:18:00.005+00:002022-01-16T23:32:26.333+00:00FRYING TONIGHT - PONDERINGS ON WHAT MIGHT'VE BEEN...<div style="text-align: justify;"><br /><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody><tr><td><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-BYacMSCENQI/Xfa00kCk4jI/AAAAAAABIyU/eoLwWtRGAzwRW3BReGBdF7259N6vn8BKgCLcBGAsYHQ/s1600/My%2Bold%2Bhouse.JPG" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="900" data-original-width="1200" height="300" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-BYacMSCENQI/Xfa00kCk4jI/AAAAAAABIyU/eoLwWtRGAzwRW3BReGBdF7259N6vn8BKgCLcBGAsYHQ/s400/My%2Bold%2Bhouse.JPG" width="400" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption"><span style="font-size: x-small;">The house with the lit-up windows and dark door was mine</span></td></tr></tbody></table><b><span style="color: red; font-size: large;"><br /></span></b><b><span style="color: red; font-size: large;">I</span></b> was in a local chip shop one night around a year or so ago, waiting on a fish being freshly fried, and the woman who served me lived in the very same neighbourhood that my family moved to from Glasgow back in 1960. She'd been there since 1959 - 60 years, even though she's younger than me, and only just flitted to a nearby flat last November. My family stayed in our house for about 4 years, before moving down the road to another street, and then we moved to another neighbourhood around 15 months later. The assistant and me fell to mentioning a few names that used to live in 'our' street, and there's a couple who still inhabit the same house as they did back then, though their kids flew the nest years ago.</div><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">That set me thinking to what it must be like for grown up children to visit the family home where they grew up and from which their parents have never moved, and it made me a little envious. It must surely be like revisiting the past, seeing familiar ornaments and pictures, etc. My history in my current house only goes back 47 years (but seems nowhere near as long as that), and I began to wonder (as I've done before) what it would've been like had we never flitted in 1964 and I was yet living in that first house instead of my present one. My pre-teenage childhood is spread over three houses, but what would it have been like if it had only ever been one?</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">Would my perceptions be different because every toy and comic I ever bought growing up would be associated with one house and neighbourhood as opposed to three? (And same goes for TV programmes.) As I've said before in another post, it somehow seems that I had three childhoods instead of just one, and though I'd be loath to have to relinquish that feeling (and the memories of the accompanying experiences, as well as friends I might never have met), the idea of one single childhood appeals to me in some indefinable way.<br /><br />Is it because that, as a mere five year-old child, I thought I'd live in that first house forever (which, in my youthful ignorance, is what I unconsciously assumed) and resented being prematurely plucked from it? Could it be a desire to finally fulfil a then-unfolding fate that was denied to me by moving, or is it something else entirely? Is it because I want to again set my step upon 'the road not taken' due to detours in other directions cropping up along the way and leading me off-track? Did my life unfold the way it was intended to (for those who believe in predestination), or was it flung to the winds, to fall where it will?</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">Who can say? Not me, as I have difficulty even articulating my nebulous thoughts in a precise way, but hopefully I've managed to convey at least a sense of what I was aiming at. Got any thoughts on the matter, fellow Mellows? Ever wonder how your life might've turned out had you never moved elsewhere as a kid, or changed schools, or this or that had never happened - or something else had? Express yourselves in the comments section.<br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;">******</div><br />Incidentally, the assistant told me her family had moved into the house when she was only around 3 months old, the scheme having been only recently completed, so it's likely that my family were also the first tenants in our house. It gives me a good feeling to know that we were the first family to live in what was our first house in a New Town, having lived in a tenement in Glasgow's West End prior to that, and I feel even more 'connected' to the house than previously. Every other house - bar the one we lived in from 1983-'87, where we were also the first residents - we were the second family to live there. (Not that I feel they were any less 'mine' for that.)</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4847913448724143443.post-48172510376441516402022-01-05T09:49:00.004+00:002023-03-09T15:45:09.798+00:00FINE BY THE FIRESIDE...<div style="text-align: center;"><br /><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody><tr><td><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-tITpiO7iBzA/ULw4ZPPsdDI/AAAAAAAALEc/WL5QwUvgmC0/s1600/image0-001.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" height="400" src="https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-tITpiO7iBzA/ULw4ZPPsdDI/AAAAAAAALEc/WL5QwUvgmC0/s400/image0-001.jpg" width="382" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Calendar illustration for January</span></td></tr></tbody></table><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><b><span style="color: red; font-size: large;">A</span></b>nd now it's time for a deeply depressing descent into the depths of the doldrums, as I regale you all with yet another anaemic anecdote that's sure to arouse your apathy (if that's not a contradiction in terms) and have you reaching for the <i><b>Diazepam</b></i> to dampen your despair at my rambling reminiscences. (Don't you just love loads of awesome alliteration? I know<i><b> I </b></i>do.)</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">On my wall hangs a <strong><em>1985 </em></strong>calendar, which I purchased from a bookshop in <strong><em>Portsmouth</em></strong> back in the month of January or February of that very year. It's a <i><b>The Wind In The Willows</b></i> calendar, featuring the iconic illustrations of <i><b>Ernest H. Shepard</b></i>, and for a month or three, it hung above the tiled fireplace of the bedsit room in which I was based at the time, travelling up to London twice a week whilst freelancing for<strong><em> IPC</em></strong>.</div></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody><tr><td><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-dUJUpn6xn0U/ULw4qB7fF2I/AAAAAAAALEk/PRKBcjHqXlw/s1600/image1.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" height="400" src="https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-dUJUpn6xn0U/ULw4qB7fF2I/AAAAAAAALEk/PRKBcjHqXlw/s400/image1.jpg" width="328" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption"><span style="font-size: x-small;">The calendar in March 1985</span></td></tr></tbody></table></div><div style="text-align: center;"></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">That tiled fireplace was a relic of another era, conjuring up images of the '50s or '60s when such a feature was commonplace in most houses in Britain. I could just imagine families huddled around the roaring flames, trying to heat their cold bones on dark wintry nights, whilst listening to the radio and supping cups of <strong><em>Bovril</em></strong> or <strong><em>Horlicks</em></strong>. (Yucchh!) Not so in my case however; the fireplace was empty, and a sheet of hardboard covered the recess where the grate should've been.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">That year ('85), it <strong><em>snowed</em></strong> in Portsmouth. Nothing more than a light fall covering the streets for two or three days, before turning to slush and then disappearing, but you'd have thought it was a calamity of immense proportions. <em>"The worst snow we've had since <strong>1963</strong>!"</em> was the common cry of complaint from the locals. I imagined the date to be a rough 'guesstimate', chosen merely because it was the closest approximation anyone could remember. Imagine my surprise then, when, 20-odd years later, I heard a radio weather forecaster confirm the year of 1963 as indeed one of the worst on record for that particular part of the country (and the rest of Great Britain too, as it happens).</div></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody><tr><td><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-9cPIalfK6Rs/ULw5WLWzktI/AAAAAAAALEs/undZHwaiDn0/s1600/image0.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" height="290" src="https://4.bp.blogspot.com/-9cPIalfK6Rs/ULw5WLWzktI/AAAAAAAALEs/undZHwaiDn0/s400/image0.jpg" width="400" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption"><span style="font-size: x-small;">A scan of the calendar today</span></td></tr></tbody></table></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /><div style="text-align: justify;">All I can say is that we<strong><em> Scots</em></strong> must be a hardy lot, as such a light snowfall for so short a period wouldn't have been a big deal to us. If anything, we'd have been disappointed that it hadn't been heavier and longer-lasting. However, let's not mock the <strong><em>English</em></strong> for being wimps - they can't help it. (He said, in a deeply caring, affectionate and non-xenophobic way.)</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">Anyway, what has all this to do with anything? Just this: As I type these words, it's snowing<span style="color: #2b00fe;">*</span> outside, and glancing at that calendar reminds me of when it hung on the wall of a bedsit in Fratton on a similar kind of evening nearly 30 years ago. The fireplace gave forth no heat back then, but recalling that room today, with the selfsame calendar hanging on my present wall, the embers of memory cast a warm glow that envelops me in its radiant embrace. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">(<span style="color: #2b00fe;">*</span>Or it was when I first wrote this. It <i><b>is</b></i> frosty outside though.)</div></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4847913448724143443.post-27626718065866598052021-12-05T13:12:00.001+00:002021-12-05T13:13:05.847+00:00RAMBLING REFLECTIONS OF THE RATHER REMOTE KIND...<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-W1PN2UrXkWA/YPIhYt2nHBI/AAAAAAABQ9w/KyfC_O9QbowXwZ4zfdPdVEIOWLTB9VnNACLcBGAsYHQ/s1600/BD.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1200" data-original-width="1600" height="300" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-W1PN2UrXkWA/YPIhYt2nHBI/AAAAAAABQ9w/KyfC_O9QbowXwZ4zfdPdVEIOWLTB9VnNACLcBGAsYHQ/w400-h300/BD.JPG" width="400" /></a></div><p style="text-align: justify;"><b><span style="color: red; font-size: large;">W</span></b>hen you're in your early 20s, you feel as if you've been around forever and can't even conceive of a time when you didn't exist. You <i><b>know</b></i> there <i><b>was</b></i>, of course, but it just doesn't <i><b>feel</b></i> like it. (The same thing could probably be said whatever age you happen to be - at least in my own experience.) I'd lived in five different houses by the time I was 20, and due to the furniture being the same from house-to-house, they all had pretty much the same ambience. In memory, therefore, those houses (the four I remember anyway, as I was only one-and-a-half when we moved from the first one) are preserved in amber, as there were no significant changes in their furnishings during our time of residence in them. (The occasional addition, but no deletions.)</p><p style="text-align: justify;">When I first moved to my current home it was the same, but eventually (several years in) some furniture was disposed of and replaced, and the house now no longer preserves the 'vibe' it once had, the interiors having evolved a different look and feel to that of my earliest years here. It now has a different 'personality' (while still retaining a few remnants of its old one), and its current ambiance no longer precisely matches that of any of our previous residences. I therefore often find myself casting my mind back to earlier times, which isn't difficult considering the sheer volume of replacement toys, books, comics, and records I've managed to obtain that remind me of my early days.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">When my gaze falls upon those doppelganger items from yesteryear, I find myself yearning to return to those times and places, and since the majority of my collection reminds me of one house in particular, I tend to find the notion of one day moving back there quite an attractive proposition, because they'd all be 'at home'. The only trouble with that though, is that I'd be bound to miss the houses before and after whenever I looked at items that preceded and followed my residence in the home under discussion. So while I'd feel I belonged there whenever I looked at a replacement comic or toy I originally owned at the time, I'd most likely feel out of place when I looked at a comic or toy from a later time in a subsequent house.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">As I've said before somewhere, it's a case of missing what you don't have, but if you reacquire it, you then miss something else. I miss my previous houses because I no longer live in them, but if I were to move back to one, I'd miss the others - including the one I currently inhabit. That's why I moved back here 34 years ago after living elsewhere for over four years, having previously stayed here for 11 - I missed it and wanted to try and turn the clock back. Now, strangely, I even miss the house I left to return here, though I didn't at the time - it took around 17 or 18 years for that feeling to finally kick in.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">Anyway, I began this post several hours ago before getting distracted by other things, so I've now forgotten precisely where I intended to go with this. All I know is that whenever I look at one group of toys or comics, the prospect of again living in the house I inhabited when I first got them seems extremely appealing to me, but having lived in a number of houses in my lifetime, I feel the same way about every former abode whenever I look at or handle other groups of items first acquired during my terms of residence in them.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">I suppose posts like this aren't fair on you poor Mellows, due to the fact that if <b><i>I</i></b> don't quite know what I'm trying to say, then <i><b>you</b></i> can't be expected to either. Hopefully you'll be able to make something out of it.</p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4847913448724143443.post-47343627220988889182021-08-31T08:19:00.005+01:002021-09-21T08:07:34.341+01:00A DIMINISHING BACKDROP OF DAY-TO-DAY LIFE...<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-qiV2BfMzO_w/YS3XEn7SaVI/AAAAAAABRq4/5W6webXYz7cYvXZdp38LRn29kWUxJCAmACLcBGAsYHQ/s1000/Looking%2Bat%2Bthe%2Bview%2B%25282%2529.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="708" data-original-width="1000" height="284" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-qiV2BfMzO_w/YS3XEn7SaVI/AAAAAAABRq4/5W6webXYz7cYvXZdp38LRn29kWUxJCAmACLcBGAsYHQ/w400-h284/Looking%2Bat%2Bthe%2Bview%2B%25282%2529.JPG" width="400" /></a></div></div><p></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><b><span style="color: red; font-size: large;">I</span></b>sn't it strange how the 'backdrop' to your life can change without you being aware of it until after-the-fact? Example: There's a fella and his wife lived in the flats around the corner from me (same street) for at least 35 years, possibly longer. He was there when we moved back to the neighbourhood after four years away, and for all I know he might've been there when we still lived here the first time.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">The pair of us were part of the local doggie-walking club in the late '80s until either the dogs or the owners gradually died. Out of about 14 of us, maybe only about four yet survive (all the dogs are gone), though me and <i><b>Martin</b></i> (as he's called) were the only two still in the area. I'd often run into him when he was out walking his new (relatively-speaking) pooch, or when one of us was going to, while the other was coming back from, the local shops.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">Anyway, last week I was sitting on a bench in the shopping area, scoffing a soft buttered roll with link sausages and fried onions (yum), when I spotted Martin and hailed him. During the course of our chat, imagine my surprise when he told me that he and his wife had moved from their flat to a house in another neighbourhood quite a distance away around five weeks or so before.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">Subconsciously, I'd yet imagined he and his dog were still traversing around the local environs when, in fact, his daily routine now unfolded somewhere else entirely, and that it was unlikely that either of us would run into the other when heading to or back from the shops. But there was even worse news to come. After being in their new house for only around three weeks or thereabouts, Martin came home one day to find his wife Isobel dead from a massive heart attack.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">Sadly, I didn't know her very well (only saw her a handful of times in 34-odd years), but what a bummer, eh? He's no longer in the flat where he and his wife brought up their kids and made many happy memories, but he's now in a house where he was denied the time to make any meaningful new memories before she was so suddenly and cruelly taken from him.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">I prefer to think that Martin still lives around the corner from me and is yet exercising his doggie around the neighbourhood, and whenever I look out of my window, I sort of imagine I've just missed spotting him by seconds. That way I can pretend that everything is as it's always been (for the last several years at least) and that the friendly face of a decent bloke is still out there to say hello to, instead of in another neighbourhood that I'm unlikely ever to visit.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">Two more long-term residents in the street are soon to flit from it, and I'm beginning to feel isolated from friendly faces that have been part of my everyday existence for decades. It's no fun seeing them all moving (or slipping) away, especially as I well-remember when my family was the new one 'on the block'. That feeling is long-gone, but somehow I find myself wishing I could re-experience it - without having to flit somewhere else in order to do it though.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">Any of you fellow-Mellows ever feel the same? Or am I just bonkers? And spare a thought for Martin, eh?</p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4847913448724143443.post-82612970793625656282021-05-31T02:00:00.005+01:002021-05-31T02:07:30.923+01:00I HAVE OFTEN WALKED DOWN THIS STREET BEFORE...<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-mtflVGq4dnQ/YLQ01ckgMVI/AAAAAAABQC0/VZxYFo3YMPEoYiYdSxRgZgWsxdM0G4UEQCLcBGAsYHQ/s1200/Number%2BOne.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="900" data-original-width="1200" height="300" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-mtflVGq4dnQ/YLQ01ckgMVI/AAAAAAABQC0/VZxYFo3YMPEoYiYdSxRgZgWsxdM0G4UEQCLcBGAsYHQ/w400-h300/Number%2BOne.JPG" width="400" /></a></div><p style="text-align: justify;"><b><span style="color: red; font-size: large;">T</span></b>he street in which I live is a long, winding, twisting, turning snake of a street with nearly 200 homes in it. Towards the late '70s, I had two friends who lived in the street, but nearer the beginning than I was. In fact, one lived in number one, the other half-a-dozen houses further up from him. Neither of them live there now, having moved out decades ago, but their parents (then, with the passing of time, a parent in each case) continued to inhabit their long-term domiciles.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">Last year, the father who lived in number one sadly passed away. He was a very well-educated and extremely intelligent man and whenever he saw me, he'd say <i>"Hello Kid"</i> (yes, even my friends' parents usually addressed me by that singular appellation), and I'd stop and have a blether with him. Sometimes, on my way to the shops, I'd chap his door to see if he needed anything, but his family, though no longer in residence, usually made sure he was well looked after, so there was only one occasion when I was of use to him for a couple of items of shopping.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">Anyway, since he died, whenever I've been passing his house, I've always looked over and given a nod in its direction, just out of respect for him. Yesterday, however, I saw a 'sold' sign at the entrance, which surprised me as I'd never seen the 'for sale' sign that would normally have preceded it. It's sad that my slight historical connection to the house has come to an end now that it's passed into the possession of another owner, but I don't think I'll ever be able to pass it without giving it a nod of acknowledgement when I do.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">Today, I went around with my camera and snapped a few photos of the front and back, as it's unlikely I'll ever again set foot on the path and steps leading up to the front door. Casting my mind back, it was in one of the bedrooms of the house that I scored my first '180' at darts sometime around 1982, and I well remember the apoplectic fit my friend's brother had in frustration at me gubbing him at the game he seemingly thought he was superior at. And maybe he was, but not on that particular day. Ah, happy memories.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">However, I'm becoming all too aware that, with the passing of time, more and more familiar places are passing beyond my reach - or disappearing altogether - and it's a sombre and scary reminder that all things must pass, and that eventually there'll be little or no signposts to my youth left to take comfort from. I used to be able to visit my old primary schools whenever there was a jumble sale, but they were demolished around 6 or 7 years ago, so I can no longer walk the halls of youthful academia. Friends have moved or died, so I can no longer revisit the interiors of their houses I was so familiar with when I was a kid or teenager.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">I don't know about you, but I miss being able to reconnect with certain aspects of my past due to people or places no longer existing, or for whatever reason it might be that prevents me doing so - like a friend's familiar house now belonging to someone else. Previously, I knew that if I wanted to chap the door of the house under discussion, I'd be made welcome and given a cup of tea and a biccie. The fact I knew I could meant that I didn't avail myself of such hospitality as often as I might have, but now that it's forever beyond me makes me kind of sad.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">Any of you feel the same way when such things happen to you, or am I just a great big overly-sentimental wussy-boy who should toughen up and just get on with things? Make your feelings known.</p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4847913448724143443.post-56990283022029478072021-03-31T22:04:00.008+01:002023-05-09T08:31:57.189+01:00KENNY TIERNEY ('WEE BARRA') - R.I.P.<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-vy91ikL82Lk/YGTjHYyDrcI/AAAAAAABPoM/5NNk_4rF_ToEzBxmKnI04jkoLkD6w6BrACLcBGAsYHQ/s1000/Kenny%2BTierney.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1000" data-original-width="750" height="400" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-vy91ikL82Lk/YGTjHYyDrcI/AAAAAAABPoM/5NNk_4rF_ToEzBxmKnI04jkoLkD6w6BrACLcBGAsYHQ/w300-h400/Kenny%2BTierney.jpg" width="300" /></a></div><p></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><b><span style="color: red; font-size: large;">Y</span></b>ou may recall me telling you about a former neighbour (<i><b>Robert Baird</b></i>) passing away from <i><b>Covid-19</b></i> recently, and I've just been informed tonight that the person who told me (another former neighbour from the same street) has also passed away, though it doesn't seem to have been Covid-related. <i><b>Kenny Tierney</b></i> was his name, affectionately known as <i><b>'Wee Barra'</b></i>, and whenever he saw me in the local shopping centre, he always took the time to stop and have a wee blether.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">Ironically, Kenny used to live directly across the back from Robert's house when I lived in the area (and for a few years after I flitted in 1972, Robert's family relocating to Essex around '76), and it's sad to think that I'll never see either Kenny or Robert ever again. Hopefully they're playing a game of football together somewhere 'up there'.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">So condolences to Kenny's family, friends, and colleagues. It sounds like a cliche, but he was liked by everyone and the world is a poorer place for his passing. I've borrowed a photo from his <i><b>Facebook</b></i> page, and also included a photo of him, his dad, and his brother back in the '60s, which he himself supplied me with a few years back when I was doing a post about his dad, who wrote letters under the name of <i><b>'Goofy'</b></i> to various newspapers. Rest in peace, wee man.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-CvHyg9_ORMg/YGThDdv6U2I/AAAAAAABPoE/SSKTpeNO62kxfQLNUqOYhUpwGeNYTjzFACLcBGAsYHQ/s1000/Tom%252C%2BKenny%252C%2B%2526%2BTony.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1000" data-original-width="775" height="400" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-CvHyg9_ORMg/YGThDdv6U2I/AAAAAAABPoE/SSKTpeNO62kxfQLNUqOYhUpwGeNYTjzFACLcBGAsYHQ/w310-h400/Tom%252C%2BKenny%252C%2B%2526%2BTony.jpg" width="310" /></a></div></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;">And below (left to right) is me, <i><b>Robert Fortune</b></i>, <i><b>Tony Tierney</b></i>, my brother, and Kenny (kneeling). The photo was taken by Kenny's and Tony's dad in the '60s, when the neighbourhood was the best it's ever been.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-6qboVFxR3GU/YGTommtMcSI/AAAAAAABPoc/LinDNG-Lkl4LwXRn-vnoe-Bb5rfIAEJtwCLcBGAsYHQ/s1000/The%2BBelmont%2BGroup.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1000" data-original-width="996" height="320" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-6qboVFxR3GU/YGTommtMcSI/AAAAAAABPoc/LinDNG-Lkl4LwXRn-vnoe-Bb5rfIAEJtwCLcBGAsYHQ/s320/The%2BBelmont%2BGroup.jpg" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4847913448724143443.post-87508141765388877382021-01-14T02:45:00.007+00:002021-01-19T19:52:27.704+00:00EVERYBODY NEEDS GOOD NEIGHBOURS...<p style="text-align: justify;"><i><b><span style="color: #2b00fe;"><span style="font-size: x-large;">Robert Baird - R.I.P. </span></span><br /></b></i></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><i><b><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-2Eoc9Uh-OUk/X_9_N5L1biI/AAAAAAABMyg/lpjh76HVThABSFFwabVY3kpPtgbRS23lACLcBGAsYHQ/s434/Robert%2BBaird.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="434" data-original-width="319" height="320" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-2Eoc9Uh-OUk/X_9_N5L1biI/AAAAAAABMyg/lpjh76HVThABSFFwabVY3kpPtgbRS23lACLcBGAsYHQ/w235-h320/Robert%2BBaird.jpg" width="235" /></a></b></i></div><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: red;"><span style="font-size: large;"><b>W</b></span></span>e called him <b><i>'Bimbo'</i></b> when he was a kid. Whether he was nicknamed after the <b><i>Jim Reeves</i></b>
song or the nursery comic for children, well - if anyone ever asked him
its origin, I never got to hear about it. He was in my primary school
class (though not secondary as I went a year ahead of him), and was also
my next door neighbour from 1965 until 1972 when I moved to another
part of town. I occasionally saw him around our secondary school (which
I yet attended even after vacating the area), but couldn't say with any
precision when sight of him ceased. It was many years later that I
learned he and his family had moved to England not long after<span style="color: #2b00fe;">*</span> we'd flitted, and I'm told he eventually did very well for himself in a high-level position at <b><i>BP</i></b>.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">(<span style="color: #2b00fe;">*</span><b><i>Update:</i></b>
A friend of his says that he moved to Essex in 1976, though I'm unsure
whether that was straight from Scotland or from somewhere else down
south. I'll have to check.)<br /></p><p style="text-align: justify;">A few months back, he joined a <b><i>Facebook</i></b>
group for our old school and we exchanged a few friendly messages. I
was surprised that he remembered me to be honest, and he even recalled
my brother's name. He didn't remain a member for long (couple of days
maybe), due to some others complaining about photographs of our old
primary school building being posted, though the group's founder didn't
mind as it as it increased participation among the members. What was
their gripe? That it was a site for former pupils of that particular
secondary school, not a primary one, even though many of the pupils had
come from the same primary. Robert didn't like the pettiness, so he
quit.<br /></p><p style="text-align: justify;">So
it had been at least 44 or 45 years since I'd last seen Robert before we
exchanged comments on that FB group, and because I was informed yesterday by
a former mutual neighbour that Robert died on January 2nd from <b><i>Covid-19</i></b>
after being diagnosed in early December, I'm so glad we were able to
reconnect - even if it was only for a handful of messages and for such a
short time. My memories of when I lived next to him are uppermost in
my mind at the moment, and as I last saw him when he was yet a young
teenager, that's how I remember him. He did return on visits from
time-to-time as he had relatives and friends here, but if I ever saw him
as an adult - possibly while walking past one another in the local
shopping centre - I never recognised him.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">And
now I want to tell you a story. I can no longer say with certainty
whether it was at the tail-end of my primary school years or at the
beginning of my secondary ones (I suspect the latter), but Robert and
his sister <b><i>Elaine</i></b> had a <i><b>Santa Claus</b></i>
cake-topper, which I instantly coveted on sight when I was in their
house one night on the run-up to Christmas. They were resistant to the
idea of parting with it, but I said I'd give them a selection box in
exchange and they said they'd think it over. About 10 minutes later,
said Santa was pushed through my letterbox wrapped in a bit of Christmas
paper. Unfortunately, not being hopeful of them accepting my offer, my
brother and myself had already started work on the selection box's
contents.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">Oo-er, what was I to do? I chapped their door and gave them a surviving <b><i>Bounty</i></b> bar (and possibly another choccy bar, a <b><i>Milky Way</i></b>
maybe), explaining what had happened and promising to make it up to
them later. What's that they say about good intentions? Somehow I
never managed to get around to it before we flitted, but for years now,
I've been planning to find out his address and post a selection box to
him with a little note saying 'debt paid'. Alas, now I never will, as
that damned Covid-19 has taken him from his family and friends (and
former neighbours) much too soon.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">Y'know,
for years after flitting from our old neighbourhood, I assumed he was
still living there, because, as I said earlier, I didn't know he'd moved
until many years later. Below is a photo of him as he looked when I
last saw him, taken from a school 'wallet' of classmates given to me by a
friend to copy a good number of years ago. The photo which heads the
post is from Robert's own Facebook page (hope his family won't mind me
borrowing it), and I note with interest that his last entry to it was
made on the 14th June 2020. I find that strangely significant in some
indefinable way, because we moved from our old neighbourhood on 14th
June 1972, exactly 48 years before his final FB contribution.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">It would've been good to see and speak to him again at some point, and, if there's an afterlife, maybe it'll happen when <b><i>I</i></b>
depart this mortal vale of tears. In the meantime, Robert, hope you're
at peace, and don't forget - I still owe you a Christmas selection
box. Hard to believe you're no longer around, except in my memories and
a couple of photographs in my possession. Rest in peace, wee Bimbo,
and condolences to all those you loved and who loved you back.</p><p style="text-align: center;">****** <br /></p><p style="text-align: justify;">Isn't
it strange how people from so far back in your childhood who you
haven't seen or spoken to in decades still resonate down through the
years and can affect you when you learn they're gone? <br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-f902za0yeD0/X_-A1DEfJuI/AAAAAAABMyo/uikVnpSglqkFeWS8DC7jzbIlXj7KeIT1ACLcBGAsYHQ/s232/School_Friends_%25281%2529_a.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="232" data-original-width="188" height="320" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-f902za0yeD0/X_-A1DEfJuI/AAAAAAABMyo/uikVnpSglqkFeWS8DC7jzbIlXj7KeIT1ACLcBGAsYHQ/w259-h320/School_Friends_%25281%2529_a.jpg" width="259" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4847913448724143443.post-47910844615682128452020-10-27T18:52:00.013+00:002022-08-29T17:55:16.181+01:00THESE BOOKS WERE MADE FOR STOCKIN'...<p style="text-align: justify;"></p><p style="text-align: justify;"></p><p style="text-align: justify;"></p><p style="text-align: justify;"></p><p style="text-align: justify;"></p><p style="text-align: justify;"></p><p style="text-align: justify;"></p><p style="text-align: justify;"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><p></p><p style="text-align: justify;"></p><p style="text-align: justify;"></p><p style="text-align: justify;"></p><p style="text-align: justify;"></p><p style="text-align: justify;"></p><p style="text-align: justify;"></p><p style="text-align: justify;"></p><p></p><p style="text-align: justify;"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><p></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: red;"><b></b></span></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"></p><div style="text-align: center;"></div><div style="text-align: center;"></div><span style="font-size: xx-small;"></span><p></p><p style="text-align: justify;"></p><div style="text-align: center;"></div><div style="text-align: center;"></div><div style="text-align: center;"></div><div style="text-align: center;"></div><div style="text-align: center;"></div><div style="text-align: center;"></div><div style="text-align: center;"></div><div style="text-align: center;"></div><div style="text-align: center;"></div><div style="text-align: center;"></div><div style="text-align: center;"></div><div style="text-align: center;"></div><div style="text-align: center;"></div><div style="text-align: center;"></div><div style="text-align: center;"></div><div style="text-align: center;"></div><div style="text-align: center;"></div><div style="text-align: center;"></div><div style="text-align: center;"></div><div style="text-align: center;"></div><div style="text-align: center;"></div><div style="text-align: center;"></div><div style="text-align: center;"></div><div style="text-align: center;"></div><div style="text-align: center;"></div><div style="text-align: center;"></div><div style="text-align: center;"></div><div style="text-align: center;"></div><div style="text-align: center;"></div><div style="text-align: center;"></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: xx-small;"> </span><span style="color: red;"><br /></span><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-SgZ4gI-UElA/X5hnp9zHIAI/AAAAAAABMLA/RReX-nDYIgI5L26Z3xj-qBKjwpvl_8wqgCLcBGAsYHQ/s1200/Gulliver%2527s%2BTravels.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1200" data-original-width="811" height="400" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-SgZ4gI-UElA/X5hnp9zHIAI/AAAAAAABMLA/RReX-nDYIgI5L26Z3xj-qBKjwpvl_8wqgCLcBGAsYHQ/w270-h400/Gulliver%2527s%2BTravels.jpg" width="270" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">All images copyright relevant owners<br /></span></td></tr></tbody></table></div><div style="text-align: justify;"></div><div style="text-align: justify;"></div><div style="text-align: justify;"></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: red;"></span><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: red;"><span style="font-size: large;"><b>R</b></span></span>ecently, I dug out a few books from my bedroom cupboard and started 'tarting up' the dust-jackets in a bid to make them more cosmetically presentable. This involved the application of a special 'repair' tape on the inside of rips and tears, then a bit of colour-touching on the outside to disguise the 'seams'. Some of these books I've had since I was a child (though they started off as my brother's), and they'd been in their less-than-perfect condition for decades, having been acquired when I lived in another house in a different neighbourhood. (And in one case, even earlier.)<br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-gXflEza5WLA/X5hnxQuzY6I/AAAAAAABMLE/O9tjZMWYe8YfrvoF8dXRsXPjVWoxpM2dwCLcBGAsYHQ/s1200/Adrift%2BIn%2BThe%2BStratosphere.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1200" data-original-width="791" height="400" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-gXflEza5WLA/X5hnxQuzY6I/AAAAAAABMLE/O9tjZMWYe8YfrvoF8dXRsXPjVWoxpM2dwCLcBGAsYHQ/w264-h400/Adrift%2BIn%2BThe%2BStratosphere.jpg" width="264" /></a></div></div><p></p><p style="text-align: justify;"></p><p></p><p style="text-align: justify;">Consequently, it should come as no surprise to anyone to learn that I mainly associated them with that previous house, even though they 'inhabited' it for only a handful of years at the most and have spent far longer in my current residence. Having a tendency towards introspection of the trivial, I assumed that I connected them more with my former abode (and that particular period of my life) because they were in essentially the same condition as back then, and perhaps also because I'd mainly overlooked them in subsequent years.</p><p style="text-align: justify;"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-egQ3ZVmLIVE/X5hn_IaHzCI/AAAAAAABMLM/yxwCyrHG9CcT-KdAo679w_IHCRWn9p26wCLcBGAsYHQ/s1200/Kidnapped%2B%2528a%2529.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1200" data-original-width="784" height="400" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-egQ3ZVmLIVE/X5hn_IaHzCI/AAAAAAABMLM/yxwCyrHG9CcT-KdAo679w_IHCRWn9p26wCLcBGAsYHQ/w261-h400/Kidnapped%2B%2528a%2529.jpg" width="261" /></a></div><p></p><p style="text-align: justify;">Funny thing is, working on the dust-jackets has 'updated' them in my mind and they no longer seem like mere remnants or reminders of the past, but a relevant part of the present as well. They belong to 'now' as well as 'then', and halcyon days of childhood seem far closer than you'd think they had a right to. It's a bit like if I were to look into a mirror today and found that my current reflection was the same as it had been many years ago, if that makes any sense to you. (As opposed to looking at an old photo of yourself showing how you used to be.) An imperfect analogy I know, but you're smart enough to get my drift.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-BVNNqen82KQ/X5hoJfUNNJI/AAAAAAABMLU/tmDx8R76eAoMGQzGUkZjvXMrLjqtuy5nACLcBGAsYHQ/s1200/Treasure%2BIsland%2B%2528a%2529.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1200" data-original-width="772" height="400" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-BVNNqen82KQ/X5hoJfUNNJI/AAAAAAABMLU/tmDx8R76eAoMGQzGUkZjvXMrLjqtuy5nACLcBGAsYHQ/w258-h400/Treasure%2BIsland%2B%2528a%2529.jpg" width="258" /></a></div><p style="text-align: justify;">In short, what I'm trying to say is that the books are no longer isolated in (or restricted to) an ill-lit 'museum' storage compartment at the back of my mind, but now also inhabit (figuratively-speaking of course) the new front 'extension' which is bright, airy, and thoroughly modern in every way. But will that impression last? Who knows, but even if it's short-lived, it's nice to know and enjoy the books as a current experience and not just a long-ago one.</p><p style="text-align: justify;"></p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-pQNW0lBGFr8/X5igbp5FxwI/AAAAAAABMLs/7i9Yj3maFecXCLw1-VFIrpl__Y8mMKRAgCLcBGAsYHQ/s1200/The%2BGorilla%2BHunters%2B%2528a%2529.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1200" data-original-width="778" height="400" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-pQNW0lBGFr8/X5igbp5FxwI/AAAAAAABMLs/7i9Yj3maFecXCLw1-VFIrpl__Y8mMKRAgCLcBGAsYHQ/w259-h400/The%2BGorilla%2BHunters%2B%2528a%2529.jpg" width="259" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">This one's a recent replacement for my original</span><br /></td><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><br /></td></tr></tbody></table><p></p><p style="text-align: justify;"></p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-2_T9AInPcNk/X5hoVXMYCGI/AAAAAAABMLc/Q6zXY6UHQZsP_i9pd_Dz54-Tu3IQOk2yQCLcBGAsYHQ/s1200/Bedtime%2BStories%2B%25281%2529.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1200" data-original-width="825" height="400" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-2_T9AInPcNk/X5hoVXMYCGI/AAAAAAABMLc/Q6zXY6UHQZsP_i9pd_Dz54-Tu3IQOk2yQCLcBGAsYHQ/w275-h400/Bedtime%2BStories%2B%25281%2529.jpg" width="275" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">No dust-jacket - tidied up the boards</span><br /></td></tr></tbody></table><p></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4847913448724143443.post-82295655109696429342020-07-12T13:01:00.005+01:002023-02-04T23:20:34.134+00:00COME ON IN AND PULL UP A CHAIR...<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Can you think of a similarly odd situation that's happened to you, or is it just me who reads too much significance into ordinary, everyday, pedestrian events? You can let me know in the comments section. Incidentally, that's a generic armchair in the above pic, as mine is covered in stuff and I can't take a good photo of it at the moment. (I will when I can.)<br />
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4847913448724143443.post-59428707419189301202020-07-06T00:28:00.002+01:002022-08-29T17:58:28.437+01:00A LAD UNIQUE (YES, IT'S A PUN)...<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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However, forget all that - it's not really what this post is about. No, it's about the 7 of spades. Eh? Well, you see, while along in my former neighbourhood a few weeks back, quite by chance I got to talking to the guy who now lives in my old house, without knowing he lived there until he chanced to mention it. Naturally I was astounded by the coincidence. I happened to mention that I harboured the suspicion that my brother may have left something in a space under the boards of one of the cupboards in what used to be my parents' room, and the guy said he'd take a look. Anyway, he did, and though he didn't find what I was hoping for, he did find something.</div>
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And that something was the 7 of spades playing card you see in the above pic. I can't say with absolute certainty whether my brother left it there, or one of the subsequent tenants after we flitted, but I prefer to think it comes from my family's time in the house (or maybe even before). What I find significant, however, is that the house number is 77, and the face of the playing card sports a 7 in two corners - which is 77 if you have an imagination like mine. Now, you may consider such things inconsequential, but little things like that make a great impression on me.</div>
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Under normal circumstances, most people will have lived in a number of houses and neighbourhoods (even countries in some cases) between youth and their later years, so there have been regular interruptions in continuity to distinguish the different events over the course of their lives. Add to that different jobs, relation-ships, marriage, kids and grandkids, and there are numerous signposts to measure how things have unfolded over the years. That doesn't really apply in my case. With the exception of that 4 year blip, my life is pretty much the same as it's always been since I was a youth, making 48 years feel like one big 'now' as opposed to a collection of various little 'then's.</div>
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To someone else, 48 years ago may seem like an eternity away, due to the fact that they've crammed multiple and varied experiences into their life, whereas, to someone like me, who hasn't, 48 years doesn't feel like being very long ago at all. (Well, sometimes it does - depends on how I'm feeling I suppose.) How does it feel for <i><b>you</b></i>, if you're old enough to encompass 48 years into your span thus far? Was it a 'forever' ago, or does it appear much more recent than that?<br />
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Another 'anniversary' is looming, in that on August 1st I'll have been back in this house for 33 years. The official tenancy commencement date was August 4th 1987, which was a Tuesday, so we moved in early this time, on the Saturday. Funnily enough, this August 1st will also be a Saturday, so I suppose things have come full circle. I've now been back for 33 years, but, despite being exactly 3 times the duration of my first term of 11 years in the '70s and early '80s, it seems nowhere near as long. I don't think I'll ever be able to get my head around paradoxes like that.</div>
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Anyway, I know this post has been another extremely self-indulgent wallow in personal nostalgia, but if you'd like to comment on my meandering musings, feel free to do so - you know where.<br />
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Yeah, big deal, you say, get to the point. Well, while I was in the long, slow, arduous process of trying to hang a few strips of wallpaper, I found staples embedded in various spots in the walls, where my brother had affixed all his heavy metal posters back in the '70s. I decided to leave them there (after flattening them into the wall with a hammer), as, having been there for more than 40 years, I didn't have the heart to remove them. Long after I'm less than a memory, these old staples will likely still be there, a permanent testament to the fact of my family's presence in this house down through the decades.</div>
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I've touched on this subject before, but it amazes me to think that we always leave our mark on wherever we've lived, even if we don't realise it at the time. When I revisted a former dwelling sixteen years after having moved out, I was surprised by just how many 'markers' of our time there yet remained. Wallpaper, tiles, lowered ceilings, marks where fluorescent lights had been, etc., it was all comfortably familiar to me, as if we'd never been away. And when we returned to the house in which I now reside, our departed doggie's scratches in the back door were there to welcome us and remind us of our prior occupation.</div>
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We all leave our mark behind us, however trivial, and regardless of whether we intend to or not. What feature of any of your former homes will attest to you <span style="text-align: left;">once having lived there long after you've gone?</span></div>
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<span style="color: red; font-size: large;"><b>A</b></span>nyone who's read <i><b>The WIND In The WILLOWS </b></i>by author <i><b>KENNETH GRAHAME </b></i>will surely be familiar with the chapter entitled <i><b>DULCE DOMUM</b></i>, in which <i><b>MOLE</b></i> and <i><b>RATTY</b></i> are returning home over the fields (after a day out with their friend <i><b>OTTER</b></i>) one winter evening near Christmas. Suddenly, Mole senses his own home which he'd 'abandoned' months before to stay with Ratty (come now, we won't be having any of <i><b>that</b></i> kind of innuendo - their relationship is purely platonic), and feels compelled to visit it again. It's a very touching episode, and speaks about the importance of having one's own place to return to, and the comfort which can be derived from being able to reconnect with one's 'roots'.</div>
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I feel like that about every house I've ever lived in. They call to me, plead with me to return for a visit and relive the memories associated with the times I stayed there during my childhood. I've mentioned before that, whenever I'm in any of my former neighbourhoods, I almost feel that I could stroll up the pathway to whichever old home it happens to be, insert my key in the lock, and go inside to find everything as it was in 'my day'. It's an instinct. I recall that, late one dark night in '83 or '84, I was walking my dog <i><b>TARA</b></i> (not to be confused with her successor <b><i>ZARA</i></b>) along one of my old streets, when she turned in at the steps of the house we'd left several months before, glanced 'round to see if I'd caught up, and made to ascend the few steps to the pathway leading up to the door. Instinct (and memory) y'see. She seemed slightly confused when I walked past and called her to my side.</div>
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Like I said, it feels like the most natural thing in the world to me to walk up the path to any of my former abodes as if I still inhabited them, presumably due to a similar 'instinct' to that which animals possess. (At least, that was my defence in court when I was charged with several counts of attempted burglary. Relax, I'm joking. I just claimed it was a case of mistaken identity.)</div>
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Tonight, I again felt the 'summons' to revisit the house and area where I lived between 1965 and '72, and I was all ready to do so when I remembered how many changes had occurred in the last 30 years (which seems like only 3 or 4 to me). The alterations had taken place incrementally over a prolonged period, until they eventually overwhelmed some aspects of the street and the surrounding environs, to such an extent that revisiting is not entirely the happy experience it used to be. I want to see the place as it was in my day, not the place it's since become, and which sours things for me to an extent.</div>
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So I resisted the call, and instead entered the past via the portal of modern technology - namely my computer. I have large folders of photos (and some video footage) of how the area used to be in younger and better days, the same as when I lived there, and I found my 'virtual' visit almost as satisfying as my actual ones before the face of the landscape had been altered, in many ways, almost beyond recognition.</div>
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Any fellow Mellows ever do this sort of thing, or am I the lone inmate in an asylum of my own construction? (<i><b>"Trapped... in a world he DID make!"</b></i> would perhaps be the comicbook subtitle.) Feel free to say I'm bonkers in the comments section - but be polite about it. (You know what a sensitive soul I am.)</div>
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What's that - the title of this post? It'a a line from the first paragraph of Dulce Domum. Give it a read - you'll enjoy it.<br />
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